A compass for sexuality, pleasure & relationships.
No one wants casual, thoughtless sex.
A shag just isn't enough.
It doesn't feed the heart or soul.
Quickies are no longer in fashion.
Faking orgasms has lost its luster.
What we need now —
is intimacy.
Sex becomes a shared language the moment you stop trying to arrive.
Masculine and feminine are not roles — they are currents you learn to hold.
What you can refuse is the measure of what you can truly offer.
Every old fear, every half-formed desire — mapped, named, and finally spoken.
Not a sprint to orgasm — a life spent in the long, unhurried conversation of two nervous systems.
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430 pages of original illustration, essays and practices — typeset to be read slowly, over many nights.
Each chapter is a country on the map — its climate, customs and terrain of intimate life.
The difference between going through the motions and truly being present — with your body, your partner, and the current that runs between you.
Masculine and feminine as dynamic poles. How to read, hold and reignite the charge that makes long-term desire possible.
Tantric, Taoist and folk teachings — from ancient Estonian rites to the silence of the Soviet era. A living history of desire.
Monogamy, polyamory, open, energetically-open. The Quodoushka wheel of sexual orientations and what each one asks of you.
Clitoral, G-spot, A-spot, cervical, squirting, anal, valley, full-body, energetic. The brain chemistry that underwrites each.
A woman is like a hearth. The hero's return. What men and women actually want in bed — as told by the people who know.
Our sexuality isn't a sprint to an orgasm — but an eternal intimate marathon.— Tom Walsberg
Men's coach, facilitator of transformational retreats, and author of the bestsellers Spiritual Gangster and How to Travel Without Fear. The Atlas of Intimacy gathers the essence of teachings on conscious sexuality that Tom has been studying and practicing for the past sixteen years — interwoven with research drawn from more than seventy works on sexuality and intimacy.
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